Thursday 9 June 2011

Unemployment

So, we found out yesterday that Mr S may lose his jobe in the next few days.

I know it sounds scary, but actually we feel a bit relieved. Poor Mr S has to get up at 5.30am and is never back home before 7pm. The job is making him ill.

We have enough savings to live off of for a good few months, so now Mr S can find a job he really wants and likes, and hopefully with better hours, and I can at last get out in the day and be useful to society by getting a job of my own!

Fingers crossed all will be well, the girls will love having him at home and it gives me some more freedom. Much as I love being a mum, I think it's time to rejoin the working race.

As I said to Mr S, there is nothing like being at home with the children to make you get a new job, and fast!

Looking forward to Mia's parties on Saturday, although it is a lot of work, it will be so much fun seeing Mia so happy and getting all the family together. The big one on Sunday is 20 of her little friends, I am still in denial she will be 5 though as much as I am in denial about my birthday coming up!

Mrs S

Monday 6 June 2011

Rain

I love hearing the rain at night when I am in bed with Mr S, I feel very warm and happy and safe.

So, things are good, I'm glad I stuck around.

My eldest Mia is 5 next Monday 13th. I can't quite believe that the little 3lb baby has grown up to be this remarkable, amazing, intelligent beautiful girl.

Mia had her first Sports Day and won both her sprint races. As long as I live, I will never forget watching her run and run and win. She had the biggest smile on her face and she looked like she was flying she was so happy. I don't think I have ever been prouder of her than I was at that moment.

I love you Mia, so much.

Mummy xxx

Saturday 4 June 2011

Judgement

So, we have all done it. Judged someone either fairly or unfairly. But then there are those who judge with malice. People you think are friends but who in fact are malicious and take it upon themselves to be mean to you or your loved ones because of a blog.

If you are reading this, you know who you are. You have no right to judge anyone from the basis of my last posts. If you judge and then say mean things to the person the post was about, then that makes you just as bad. It is not for you to do this, it is for me.

You made my loved one feel uncomfortable, sad and upset in a public place. My loved one and I have discussed things and believe me I have made him feel all those things, but that is for me to do, NOT you.

You should not judge people until you know all of the facts, and the maliciousness in which you then dealt the blow was completely wrong and unacceptable.

S